A life lesson in the farmers market parking lot: A lesson in self-advocating from a little kid

Originally published on Medium

I didn’t expect to get a deep life lesson in the middle of the farmer’s market parking lot.

My husband and I sometimes stop at a small farmers market held Saturday mornings in a parking lot off a busy street.

On this particular day, my window was down. My husband drove into the parking lot and was about to park.

Through my window, I saw a dad tell a little kid with brown curly hair: “Be careful so he doesn’t run you over.”

And then that little kid turned and yelled at our car “Don’t run me over!”

And I had to stop, mentally record this moment and then later, I wrote it down on my phone so I didn’t forget.

First, because this was the cutest moment.

But more importantly, because I learned something from this kid.

They were so smart. They got a warning from their dad then correctly identified who to warn to ensure their personal safety.

They didn’t hesitate to speak up for themselves.

You go, kid.

I wanna be like you when I grow up.

Author | Aneisha - Writer and Bookkeeper

Aneisha Velazquez is a bookkeeper and clarity guide who helps neurodivergent-led businesses stop fighting their numbers and start trusting themselves.

Having experienced firsthand the pressures different-brained entrepreneurs face in systems not built for them, she brings compassion to money conversations and normalizes the mess — making finances feel less overwhelming and far more manageable.

She’s the founder of Yellow Sky Business Services and writes the newsletter The Peaceful Pocket, where she explores making business more neurodivergent-friendly, money tips with context, and stories and behind-the-scenes as an AuDHD founder.

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